The Fear of the Lord and how that relates to our life before the world

You have been studying the fear of the LORD and now it is time to see whether you are really taking it seriously. Do you really fear the One who created and sustains and will eventually destroy this present world? Or is this present world all that matters to you? If you truly fear the LORD, or if you have a “continual reverence” for God, then you will think and act differently. As a result, you will have a greater witness to a world that does not fear God. This will be our focus. We are going to look at how we are to think and act differently and then we will look at some examples of people who feared the LORD and their witness greatly impacted their world. Today you are going to spend a lot of time looking at your life. You are going to examine your life and it may be uncomfortable. You are going to ask yourself many questions and think about your answers. Many of you may be happy with what you see. But then some of you may look more closely and realize you could be so much more like Christ. But, if you fear the LORD, you will not take this lightly.
First, we are going to look at how we are to think as believers, as those who fear the LORD. While studying for this topic, I spent a great deal of time in Proverbs, esp. the first few chapters.
Proverbs 1:7 says, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge;
Fools despise wisdom and instruction.”
Let me just repeat that first phrase: “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge”. Notice, it does not say, the fear of the LORD is the middle or the ending of knowledge. It is the beginning. This is where we start. This is so basic, yet so important! We are to think completely opposite from the world. The world would say that knowledge and truth comes from within. The Word of God says that knowledge only comes from fearing the LORD. So, how do we practically live this out? Well, where do you go first for answers? Psychology, sociology, science, or the latest behavior studies? We are to answer every question with, “What does the Bible say?” In this way we show that the fear of the LORD is the beginning of our knowledge, and not something we just tack on at the end as a “supporting verse”. MacArthur says that “the fear of the LORD is a state of mind in which one’s own attitudes, will, feelings, deeds, and goals are exchanged for God’s.”There is a continual turning from what I think or feel or want, to what God thinks or feels or wants. The Bible is my authority and I gladly exchange my desires for God’s.
Now, we are going to spend a great deal of our time making this practical. If you as a believer and one who fears God think biblically first, then the overflow of this will be right actions. What are some different areas of your life that you need to think biblically about? What are some areas that may differ for a person who fears the LORD and the person who does not fear Him?
We are going to look at quite a few of these. First, how about we look at our outward appearance or what we wear. Unfortunately, it is not always obvious that the world has their own dress. This was also a problem for the nation of Israel. God wanted them to look different. Leviticus 19:19 says they were not to “wear a garment upon you of two kinds of material mixed together.” In and of itself, mixing two types of thread is not sinful, but He wanted them set apart from the other idolatrous Nations that lived around them. Now these rules do not apply to us in the New Testament Era, because the OT law is dead to us. We are under the law of Christ, but we do have some guidelines to live by. For instance, I Timothy 2:9-10 says, “Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to Godliness.” In Paul’s day women would wear costly clothes and braided hair with pearls or other jewelry and the main purpose was to get attention. If they are getting the attention, then the Lord is not. How might this apply to you? For me, before I was a Christian, I wanted to wear what every other girl was wearing and at that time, it was very short shorts and shirts that were barely there. Sound familiar? Then, I wanted boys to look at me. Why might this be wrong at a public place? At church? “Modestly and dressing discreetly” carries an idea of humility and even shame. We are to have self-control over our own passions and not desire to lead others (men) into sin. If you are humble enough to obey what the Bible says and dress modestly and you do not desire to draw attention to yourself, then you are showing the world that you fear the LORD and you do not want to be like the world.
Now that we have talked about our physical appearance, let us go a little deeper. What about how we speak? Name some ways that you might show the world that you do not fear the Lord with your speech. (swearing, threatening, complaining, arguing, crude, gossip) Let us look at a few of these. Ephesians 4:29 reads, “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.” This is really our standard. Our words should only be good, edifying and gracious. The word “unwholesome” refers to something that is rotten or foul, such as spoiled meat or fruit. Look at the phrase, “according to the need of the moment”. What do you think that this might mean? (Our speech must also be instructive and sometimes corrective). Philippians 2:14 says, “Do all things without grumbling or complaining.” I have young children and I am constantly reminding them of this verse. It is one that they have memorized by mere repetition. Now, be honest, have you ever gone through a day without complaining? It is so easy to complain. Another question. How many of you have never, ever argued? But, this verse says to do “everything” without arguing and complaining. We have a high standard. Now, there is one more form of speech that us women never struggle with. What is it? (gossip) But, so we can admonish our husbands. I Timothy 5:13 reads, “At the same time they also learn to be idle, as they go around from house to house; and not merely idle, but also gossips and busybodies, talking about things not proper to mention.” Paul is saying that younger wives who do not remarry tend to become gossips and busybodies, because they have nothing else to do, for they have no husband or children to take care of and serve. Notice verse 14, Paul says he would rather these women remarry and keep house, why? (give the enemy no occasion for reproach) The world sees what you do and they hear how you speak, and if you are gossiping, then they have a reason for reproaching Christ. If you struggle with any of these areas, pray for God to help you with your speech, so that He would not be insulted because of you. Now, lest you say, I just can’t be perfect in those areas, let me read to you one verse. Luke 6: 45 says, “The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth what is evil; for his mouth speaks from that which fill his heart.” It will not be a secret to anyone what kind of a person you are. All you have to do is open your mouth. There are two other verses that show how we are to be different from non-believers. Ephesians 4:17 says that you are to “walk no longer just as the Gentiles also walk.” Why is this? The answer is in 2 Corinthians 5:17. “Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.”
Now, we have talked about what you put on your body and what comes out of your mouth, but what about what goes into your stomach. I Corinthians 10:31 says, “Whether then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” Earlier in this passage, Paul is speaking about how you are to follow your conscience and not violate that, but he also speaks about not violating another person’s conscience as well. Verse 32 says that we are to give no offense to our Christian brothers, but also to the rest of the world. Do you think about that when it comes to eating and drinking? Like I said before, nothing in and of itself is sinful, but it can be if you do something to excess. You can even eat too much. That is why I liked being pregnant because I had an excuse to eat too much. And when I had twins, I had 2 excuses. I ate a lot then! I want you to look through your Bible and tell me one verse where gluttony and drunkenness are praised. It can’t be done, but I can show you many where they are condemned. I did a word search and I easily came up with 116 verses that speak of these 2 sins. It is not something we want to imitate. Look at your life. In one of his Resolutions, Jonathan Edwards writes, “Resolved, to maintain the strictest temperance in eating and drinking (#20). I think this would be a good resolution for all of us as well. I think the best way to gauge whether you are acting like a Christian is to simply ask yourself, “Would this bring Christ glory or dishonor?”
Now, I simply want to put before other areas of your life that may need to change so that others will look at you life and see that you are a God-fearing person. How about the movies you watch or the music you listen to? Do you have a criteria as to what movies might be OK to watch and which ones you should probably skip? What qualities might a movie have that you might want to not attend? (sex, bad language, excessive drinking, dishonoring to God, nudity, homosexuality…) You could think about music in the same way. Again, can you say that watching this movie, or listening to this music brings glory to God and provides a positive witness to Christ:
Now, let us talk about how we spend our time. What verse have we already talked about that could be our standard? (I Cor. 10:31) Another quality that we need not imitate is laziness. Think about not only how you spend your time, but where you spend your time. Now, that you are thinking about how and where you spend your time, you can also think about who you spend your time with. Now, I am not saying that we are to never be with unbelievers. We are not only on this earth to bring God glory, but also to share His offer of salvation to the world and you cannot do that unless you are among them. You might have unbelieving friends, but do you spend all your time with them doing things that they might enjoy? Is there not something wrong with that? Hebrews 10:25 says that we are not to forsake assembling together. You are to spend much of your time with believers because there are things that unbelievers simply will not enjoy doing. Name some of these things. (praising God, singing praise, communion, Bible reading, giving, preaching..)
To review, I want you to evaluate how wisely or unwisely you spend your time. My husband taught on this not too long ago and I just want to read a small portion of his lesson. “The Bible has a lot to say about how we use our time, which is convicting when we think about how much time we waste watching movies, surfing the internet, playing games, etc. Time is important because it is limited and we can never get it back. How proud or how ashamed will you be when your life is over and you think about how you used the time that you had: The Puritans literally grieved over their loss of time. Eph. 5: 15-16 says, “Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil.” Advise: sit down to evaluate your weekly schedule. As a note of qualification, I am not saying that we should not ever watch TV, or a movie, or play a game, but everything in moderation. The point is to have eternal perspective. Wear yourself out for the glory of God, using every moment to the fullest for His glory.”
Now, that we have gone through the areas of our lives that either reflect our fear of God or cause the world to conclude that we do not fear Him, I just want us to look at a few examples from the Bible of people who feared God. Exodus 1:15-22 reads,
“Ex. 1:15 ¶ Then the king of Egypt spoke to the Hebrew midwives, one of whom was named Shiphrah and the other was named Puah;
Ex. 1:16 and he said, “When you are helping the Hebrew women to give birth and see them upon the birthstool, if it is a son, then you shall put him to death; but if it is a daughter, then she shall live.”
Ex. 1:17 But the midwives feared God, and did not do as the king of Egypt had commanded them, but let the boys live.
Ex. 1:18 So the king of Egypt called for the midwives and said to them, “Why have you done this thing, and let the boys live?”
Ex. 1:19 The midwives said to Pharaoh, “Because the Hebrew women are not as the Egyptian women; for they are vigorous and give birth before the midwife can get to them.”
Ex. 1:20 So God was good to the midwives, and the people multiplied, and became very mighty.
Ex. 1:21 Because the midwives feared God, He established households for them.
Ex. 1:22 Then Pharaoh commanded all his people, saying, “Every son who is born you are to cast into the Nile, and every daughter you are to keep alive.”
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Here we have 2 midwives who have been told by Pharaoh to kill babies. Only two are mentioned, but there were most likely many more, since the Hebrew population was so great. But, Shiphrah and Puah feared the Lord, and instead of obeying their earthly King, they choose to obey their heavenly King. Now, was their allegiance hidden from Pharaoh or did he know it? Yes, of course he knew it! They feared God and it was evident to all. So much so, that Pharaoh had to come up with a different plan. He had to enlist the help of everyone else to accomplish his evil plan. And what is the result of the fear of God in these midwives? Verses 20-21 says that not only did the “people multiply, and become numerous,” but also that “God was good to the midwives” and that He “established families for them”. These midwives feared God and greatly impacted their world. In the end, God abundantly blessed them.
Remember how God used Moses to bring his beloved Israel out of Egypt and how God brought them to the Sea and now they are watching Pharaoh and all his army marching straight for them. Many of them chose to fear, but Moses said to the people “Do not fear! Stand by and see the salvation of the LORD which He will accomplish for you today.” (Ex. 14:13) After the Lord brought them over on dry land and then covered all of the Egyptians with the Sea, we see Israel’s response. Exodus 14: 30-31 reads, “Thus the LORD saved Israel that day from the hand of the Egyptians, and Israel saw the Egyptians dead on the seashore. When Israel saw the great power which the LORD had used against the Egyptians, the people feared the LORD, and they believed in the LORD and in His servant Moses.” Moses chose to fear the Lord. The midwives chose to fear the Lord. The world does not fear the Lord. This is obvious if you look at Romans 3. This passage begins by saying, and I will summarize, that “none are righteous, there is none who seeks for God, They have become useless, with their tongues they keep deceiving, whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness” and then in verse 18 it says, “there is no fear of God before their eyes.” These are the actions of the world, but these should not come from us as believers.
There is one last example that I want to put before you. Turn to Proverbs 31. Here we have the Excellent Wife. Let us read a few verses to give us a picture of this woman. Verse 11 says that “the heart of her husband trusts her,” so she must be trustworthy. Verse 12 shows us that she always does good to her husband. We see in verse 13 and 27 as well, that she is not lazy, but she works hard. Verse 15 shows us that she gives food to others, so she must not be a glutton. In verse 16, we see that she spends her money wisely. In verse 26, we see that “she opens her mouth in wisdom and the teaching of kindness in on her tongue.” We see, then, that she is not a gossip or a liar and her speech is gracious and edifying. Verse 30 says that she is a woman who fears God. Her actions and dress and speech show this for all to see. What is the end result of this? Here we see that “her children rise up and bless her; her husband also, and he praises her, saying: ‘Many daughters have done nobly, But you excel them all.’” Will you be one who will “excel them all”? This should be our prayer.